ephemeral-relay

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Ephemeral Relay

Events are not forever.

Ephemeral Relay is a Nostr relay for temporary events. Built for content whose natural lifetime is hours, not years — e.g. live-stream chat, bridged messages, presence — built on the Khatru framework.

The relay tells clients its policy itself. Its NIP-11 description is generated from your acceptance and retention settings, so you don't have to trust a README:

Accepts kinds 0,5,7,16,1311,1312,1313,9735,10312 only. All events except kinds 0 are deleted after 3h0m0s.

The life of an event

flowchart LR
    A([EVENT arrives]) -->|kind not in ALLOWED_KINDS| X([rejected])
    A -->|NIP-40 tag expired| X
    A -->|NIP-70 “-” tag, sender not authed as author| X
    A --> S[(stored & served)]
    S -->|NIP-40 expiration passes| H[hidden from queries] --> D([deleted by sweep])
    S -->|older than RETENTION_SECONDS| D
    S -.->|kind in RETENTION_EXEMPT_KINDS| K([kept indefinitely])
    H ~~~ K

Protected three ways

The posture of this relay is ephemeral, limited, anti-gossip. For content that must not outlive its moment — say, chat bridged from users on another platform who never signed up for permanent, globally-replicated speech. It is intended to be used together with events holding NIP-40 and NIP-70 tags.

1. Blanket TTL — the relay hard-deletes every retained-kind event after RETENTION_SECONDS.
2. NIP-40 expiration — the relay respects NIP-40 expiration times, and recommends it, so that even if a copy escapes to other relays, honest ones delete it on schedule.
3. NIP-70 protected events — the relay respects NIP-70 protected events, validates them with NIP-42 and recommends their use so that an honest relay will not accept the event from anyone but its author and a rebroadcast copy is never stored at all.

The ephemeral anti-gossip posture is that this relay will delete events after RETENTION_SECONDS, and that all other honest relays should not store the events at all (NIP-70), and should delete them at expiry if stored (NIP-40).

Why this relay

No off-the-shelf relay combined these (as of mid-2026):

	nostr-rs-relay	strfry	SW2 / WoT Relay (khatru)	Ephemeral Relay
kind allowlist	✅	plugin	❌	✅
age-based retention	❌	ephemeral kinds only	WoT: days-grain	✅
NIP-40 honoured	✅	✅	❌	✅
NIP-70 enforced	❌	✅	✅	✅

Prove it in 60 seconds

With docker and nak:

docker compose up -d --build   # relay on ws://localhost:7448

# publish a chat message that expires in 30 seconds
nak event -k 1311 -c "I will expire" -t expiration=$(($(date +%s)+30)) ws://localhost:7448

nak req -k 1311 ws://localhost:7448   # there it is
sleep 30
nak req -k 1311 ws://localhost:7448   # gone

Use Cases

• Live stream chat: chat messages, reactions, reposts and zap receipts live for the duration of a show and then scroll away, like chat is supposed to.
• Bridged content: colocate with a bridge that republishes users from another platform; stamp its events with expiration and - to enforce transience across an honest network.
• Ephemeral notice boards: announcements, presence, status — anywhere stale content is worse than no content.

The default kind set is live-chat flavoured, but it's entirely yours to configure — set ALLOWED_KINDS to whatever your use case needs. The only opinion this relay keeps is that things expire.

Prerequisites

• Go: Ensure you have Go installed on your system. You can download it from here.
• Build Essentials: If you're using Linux, you may need to install build essentials. You can do this by running sudo apt install build-essential.

Setup Instructions

1. Clone the repository

git clone https://github.com/r0d8lsh0p/ephemeral-relay.git
cd ephemeral-relay

2. Copy .env.example to .env

cp .env.example .env

3. Set your environment variables

Variable	Default	Meaning
ALLOWED_KINDS	0,5,7,16,1311,1312,1313,9735,10312	Only these kinds are accepted — configure for your use case. Default covers profiles, deletions, reactions, reposts, live chat / raids / clips (1311/1312/1313, per zap.stream), zap receipts, and NIP-53 room presence
RETENTION_SECONDS	10800 (3 h)	Events older than this are hard-deleted
PURGE_INTERVAL_SECONDS	600	How often the deletion sweep runs
RETENTION_EXEMPT_KINDS	0	Kinds kept indefinitely (profiles by default)
RATE_LIMIT_EVENTS_PER_SEC / RATE_LIMIT_BURST	10 / 50	Per-IP write rate limit
TRUSTED_IPS	—	IPs exempt from the rate limit
PORT	3335	Listen port
DB_PATH	db/	Badger database path
RELAY_NAME / RELAY_PUBKEY / RELAY_ICON / RELAY_CONTACT / RELAY_DESCRIPTION	—	NIP-11 identity (description auto-generated from retention settings unless set)

Some values are fixed on purpose:

Fixed	Value	Why it isn't an env var
Ephemeral-range wildcard	off	khatru's kind policy can blanket-admit all of NIP-01's ephemeral range (20000–29999); that would undercut the limited posture. Want a specific ephemeral kind? Put its number in ALLOWED_KINDS.
Timestamp sanity window	2 h past / 30 min future	Events dated outside this window are rejected so that back-dating or forward-dating cannot be used to avoid deletion.

[!NOTE] The expected use of TRUSTED_IPS is colocating this relay with a bridge: a bridge funnels many streams' chat through a single egress IP and would otherwise be throttled like one anonymous client. On a platform like Railway, run relay and bridge in the same project and whitelist the bridge's private-network address.

[!IMPORTANT] NIP-40 can only shorten an event's life. A distant expiration does not exempt an event from RETENTION_SECONDS — the blanket window always wins.

4. Build the project

go build

5. Create a Systemd Service (optional)

1. Create the file:

sudo nano /etc/systemd/system/ephemeral-relay.service

1. Add the following contents:

[Unit]
Description=Ephemeral Relay Service
After=network.target

[Service]
ExecStart=/home/ubuntu/ephemeral-relay/ephemeral-relay
WorkingDirectory=/home/ubuntu/ephemeral-relay
Restart=always

[Install]
WantedBy=multi-user.target

Replace /home/ubuntu/ with the actual path where you cloned the repository.

1. Reload systemd, start, and (optionally) enable on boot:

sudo systemctl daemon-reload
sudo systemctl start ephemeral-relay
sudo systemctl enable ephemeral-relay

[!TIP] If the relay can't read or write its database, give the service user ownership of the db folder — sudo chown -R <service-user> /path/to/db — rather than opening permissions wide.

6. Serving over nginx (optional)

server {
    listen 80;
    server_name chat.yourdomain.com;

    location / {
        proxy_pass http://localhost:3335;
        proxy_set_header Host $host;
        proxy_set_header X-Real-IP $remote_addr;
        proxy_set_header X-Forwarded-For $proxy_add_x_forwarded_for;
        proxy_set_header X-Forwarded-Proto $scheme;
        proxy_http_version 1.1;
        proxy_set_header Upgrade $http_upgrade;
        proxy_set_header Connection "upgrade";
    }
}

Replace chat.yourdomain.com with your actual domain name, then restart nginx:

sudo systemctl restart nginx

[!WARNING] X-Forwarded-For is load-bearing: the rate limiter identifies clients by real IP through the proxy, and TRUSTED_IPS entries are matched against those. Strip or mangle it and every client looks like your proxy.

7. Install Certbot (optional)

If you want to serve the relay over HTTPS, use Certbot to generate an SSL certificate:

sudo apt-get update
sudo apt-get install certbot python3-certbot-nginx
sudo certbot --nginx

8. Access the relay

Once everything is set up, the relay will be running on localhost:3335 or your domain name if you set up nginx. Fetch its NIP-11 document to confirm the policy it's advertising:

curl -H 'Accept: application/nostr+json' https://chat.yourdomain.com

Start the Project with Docker Compose

1. Ensure Docker and Docker Compose are installed on your system.

2. Adjust the environment variables in docker-compose.yml as needed.

3. Run:

   # in foreground
   docker compose up --build
   # in background
   docker compose up --build -d
   

4. To update the relay:

   git pull
   docker compose build --no-cache
   docker compose up -d
   

The relay service will be accessible on port 7448 (mapped from the container's 3335).

End-to-End Tests

A protocol-level checker lives in e2e/. Point it at a relay running with short retention:

RETENTION_SECONDS=8 PURGE_INTERVAL_SECONDS=2 PORT=3336 DB_PATH=/tmp/eph-e2e ./ephemeral-relay &
go run ./e2e -relay ws://localhost:3336 -retention 8

Checks: disallowed kinds rejected; chat accepted and served; after the retention window chat is purged while a kind 0 profile survives.

Additional modes:

go run ./e2e -relay ws://localhost:3336 -nip40 -ttl 180 # short-TTL event dies on time, tagless control survives
go run ./e2e -relay ws://localhost:3336 -nip70 # "-" events: author-only publish, rebroadcasts refused
go run ./e2e -relay ws://localhost:3336 -burst-only # rate limiter caps an untrusted burst
go run ./e2e -relay ws://localhost:3336 -burst-only -burst-trusted # TRUSTED_IPS bypass takes the full volley

License

MIT